Monday, May 21, 2012

You don't want a relationship

.. the words from P, the guy I dated January to April this year. He just emailed a LONG letter saying all sorts of nice things (basically want us to try again), but also this "conclusion" about me.

And as much as I am tempted to slag off his comment with a "Don't you get it pucko -- I DO want a relationship, just not with YOU", I can't help getting a bit intrigued by his reflection. As an example he pointed out my future board (a clip board I made last autumn with pictures of babies and family life and houses etc) and said "you say you want this, but do you really fight for it?".

What if he is right? Perhaps I am too happy and content with myself by myself, that I don't have enough patience with the guys I meet?

Is single-dom self really inflicted?




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